As I go though this transition in my life, I have been expecting my self to begin organizing how to do it "effectively" … to come up with a plan that will insure that it "goes well."  But as I sit with some of you and think about how much life we have shared, and how that is going to change, I find this assumption that I can do it "effectively" is dissolving.  I don't know how to do this.  I don't know how to set aside personal time with 300 people to thoroughly recount and reflect on what we've experienced together, how many